sometimes the hardest thing in the world is to let go of someone; whether it be within friendship, family, or relationships but it’s emotionally damaging to continue to find good qualities within the questionable characters of people. trying to see and find the good in people is no crime but allowing the bad in people to stain your life, to stress you out, and to anchor you down is a crime against yourself. dna is not what creates that special bond; it’s people who want to be in your life, who love you and care for you truly, who are honest with you and respect you, as well as themselves, who in some small way, make your life better. letting go is difficult because of time invested, the bond, the circumstance but sometimes it is the best thing you can do for yourself. people change and holding onto who they were won’t change them back. and some people always were the way you never saw. you have people who want to be in your life and who fit these details, those are the ones you direct your energy towards.. the rest, you stop over-analyzing and you just let it go. be brave enough to stand up for yourself and be smart enough to know you can try but there are no guarantees when dealing with another human being- you can care because you’re a good person but you cannot sit back and allow poison to seep into your life because in trying to save someone who’s not there, you won’t survive.
let it all go.