sometimes in protecting the person that we care for, we must make difficult choices. sometimes the truth is so painful we try to shield the people we care for from it and they get angered by our actions but if they knew what we had really done, they’d know.. no one could care or respect them more to commit such an action for them. people do not make painful decisions without a great cause to endure such pain. and when someone cares for another, they never wish to burden them with their own problems. but if we carry the burden alone, it takes a toll on us. it causes us to look for comfort in the wrong places and vent it out in the wrong way because we’re going crazy inside. sometimes we have to be honest with those we care for and allow them to be there for us in moments of pain because if they truly care, they will understand.